My thoughts on Companionship
It needs to be bad ass. Down as fuck.
Once your in, its like joining a tribe, a gang, a village.
They are committed to each other and agree their is no way out. Nothing can separate them.
Down partners won’t let anything get in between them. Not an institution, religion, rule or anything.
The partnership creates their own rules and values. They have flexibility but at the end of the day, nothing can separate them or break them.
No one or anything determines they are together, they themselves have decided this.
The only excuse is “i don’t care enough”, at this point, the partner decides wether or not he or she is willing to suffer with this understanding.
Companions have no regulations. They give it their all and hope the others doesn’t regulate.
If and when the partner regulates, the partner must ask which institution, rule, government, religion or tradition has decided this, at this point he/she must determine if he/she is down to submit to the authority of his/her lover.
This is when one decides if love is associated with rules, law and tradition. If this is the case, one decides that these three transcends the law of love.